DEAR GIRL

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You are Bold
You Special
You are Unique,
You are Enough,
You are Beautiful
You deserve all the Best,
You are too Real to be compared to magazine girls
You are worthy more than just an Insta/Facebook post...........

I have this girlfriend of mine who had a mean low self-esteem, to an extent that she felt insecure of herself sometimes.She always worried about her thick body,what she wore and the opinions of those around her; one day something happened while we were outside after church, she had a bunch of guys criticizing her and the ultimate result of this was a serious breakdown. And also, a decision to leave church for good, thats when l knew l had to step in as a true friend.
l told her that:

• she should live with people and not live for them
• people will always talk crap whether you  do good/bad or look beautiful/ugly
• she should know that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, BUT they ain't FACTS
• she was beautifully and wonderfully made by GOD,so no one has any right to tell her otherwise..
• beauty comes in different colors,shapes and sizes......

This to mean that if you DON'T stand up to these nasty comments and LIVE up to them you gonna have serious problem.You can never run away form such but you can at least stop them from hurting you.

• S- stay from toxic people💨
• T-try to  succumbed to nasty comments /overthink
• I-ignore negative comments
• C-continue praying for wisdom/to seek inspiration
• K-keep visualising

       HAPPY__SUNDAY__FAM😍😗